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When Living Together Turns Into Keeping Score: The Problem with Black-and-White Thinking

When couples move in together, small habits—how to load the dishwasher, pay bills, or spend downtime—can suddenly feel like moral battles. Black-and-white thinking turns “differences” into “right vs. wrong,” leaving partners stuck in a cycle of blame and resentment. Here’s how to recognize that trap and shift toward collaboration instead of competition.

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